父母的爱
The love of parents
目前的我只是一名高中学生，还没有到结婚育儿的年纪，也很难彻底得认识到为人父母的感情。现在要让我谈论“父母之爱”这么深奥的问题，我认为自己的见解是不深刻的，但是我还是尽量阐述一下自己的领悟：
At present,I'm just a high school student,not yet old enough to marrying and having children.so,it's difficult for me to fully recognicze the love of parents.Now,let me talk about the abstruse question of "the love of parents",I think my opinion is not profound.but I will try to express my opinion:
我确信，在这个世界上，绝大多数父母都很爱自己儿女的。可是究竟什么才是对儿女的爱，什么才是跟儿女最好的相处方式，什么样的爱才是儿女最需要的，这些问题需要我们好好探讨一下。
I‘m sure that,in this world,the vast majority of parents love their children.However,there are many problems:What is the love for children? What is the best way to get along with children? What kind of love is the children in need mostly.These problems need us to think about.
我们知道，有一些父母对儿女的爱，他们的情感却被称为“溺爱”。我们发现这类父母无时无刻不在宠爱着儿女，乃至到了过分的程度。儿女的要求，这类父母都会尽力去满足，可是他们竟然不去分析一下儿女的这些需要是否正确。
As we know, there are some parents love their children,but their love are being described as "doting".We found that this kind of parents love their children every hour and moment even to a morbid degree.This kind of parents will try to meet the various requirements of children.But they ignore the analysis about the children's need is correct or not.
我们又知道，有一些父母对儿女的要求很高。他们希望儿女学会坚强，不要总是依赖父母。因此在很多时候，这类父母丝毫不会展现对儿女的爱。可是这样很容易造成误会，会令他们的子女觉得父母似乎并不关心他们。子女不明白父母的良苦用心，就会因此伤心难过，免不了抱怨他们父母的狠心。
We also know,the education way of some parents is severe.They want their children to learn to be strong,do not always rely on parents.In many cases,these parents did not show love for children,but this is very easily lead to misunderstanding,will make their children feel that their parents don't care about them.Child's mind is simple,often can't understand their parents’s great effort.They just feel sad,perhaps even hate their parents.
谈到这些了，我也为父母的爱而感动，不知道该怎么叙述心情。爱是如此奇妙！爱是这个世界上最难以言表的感情，也是最珍贵的情感。爱之所以珍贵的，因为要呈现它是艰难的。人们是需要付出巨大努力的，并不是简单得说说、做做就可以。我想关于“父母之爱”的道理，恰恰就是这样难以叙述。我确信很多父母都在拿捏着对儿女的关心程度，他们知道“溺爱”的危害，他们也知道过于严厉会让子女伤心。因此，他们是艰难的，是不易的，父母之爱的珍贵就在此体现了。
Speaking of these,I am moved because the love of parents,don't know how to describe my feeling. Love is so Marvelous! Love is most unspeakable emotion, which is the most precious emotion. Love is so precious,because it is difficult to achieve it.Love is need to pay a huge effort,and not so simple to say somethings or do something.I think about the truth of "the love of parents",this is why it's so hard to tell.I am sure that many parents diligently try a appropriate degree of the solicitude for their children.They know the doting on child is harmful,they also know the harsh criticism will hurt their children.Therefore,they are difficult,is not easy,the preciousness of parents's love reflect in this.
